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Profile Picture XXnjoXX ManXXkX | Author
I had a fight with my husband because he gave priority to himself e.g.playing with friends, spending time on the phone for an hour, watching TV.Hardly give quality time to me and kid.I am working women I have to handle home ,work, kid everything.He is hardly helping me.we had multiple arguments over past on this issue but every time I am one who is compromising .this time fight turns in physical fight i gave him back strongly . Now I am realizing what went wrong and I was not this kind of person luckily my kid was not at home at that time. I'm thinking what I can do now ? I don't want families to be involved in this matter.
2025-05-28 01:00:40

Profile Picture Iswariya Rajasekar | Counselling Psychologist
Make a good and clear communication with your husband how you feel right now and want him to involve all the household works atleast he wants take care of the kids for such a time don't put all the pressure on yours we have to discuss it further through session just connect with me we will get such solution
2025-06-02 11:38:19

Profile Picture Vandana Sharma | Counselling Psychologist
Dear SanjotHow long above you been married? Has it been this way with your husband even before having your kid? The situation needs to be handled delicately with him. Is your husband ok with Couple Therapy?
2025-06-04 08:23:05

Profile Picture Urvashi Gautam | Counselling Psychologist
From what you have shared I can observe and understand that what you are dealing and experiencing is an incredibly tough, overwhelming situation. Your frustration and exhaustion are completely understandable, and valid given the immense load you're carrying with work, home, and childcare, seemingly with little support. I encourage you to consider an initial session to discuss your experiences and explore a path forward. This session and following sessions might provide you with the much needed space where you feel heard, safe, accepted, and build on skills that make you feel more equipped to navigate such similar situations in a healthier manner.
2025-06-10 16:33:39

Profile Picture Uma | Counselling Psychologist
What I understand for the issues that you have shared is that your husband has a typical mindset and in such situation you should take a professional help and contact us for Marriage counseling. your present mental health, frustration and exhaustion are completely understandable, and are even valid as you are going thru various life challenges like dealing with work, home, and childcare at the same time with out any appreciation or help, I request you to alteas connect with me for initial sessions and then during the sessions we can connect with your husband if he is not willing to come forward for Marriage Counselling.
2025-06-18 13:39:30