PrXtibha | Author
Since my marriage in last November,me n my husband always keep arguing. I fail to count my good moments,rather fights. He is always angry,stays distant from me. Currently he is in canada n i m in india. My sexual desires are not at all fulfilled. He is just stressed about work as he has no fix job in canada. Now he has marriage responsibilities as well. I think he wants me to always be quiet n listen to him . Also my in-laws have seen all fights, so now they make issue of it, always. My husband has never given me love,i always crave for it. I dont know what to do? I m stuck but i dont want to give up on this relationship also. While my husband n my M-I-L keep saying to file for separation. Idk its too much of stress and torture. Now i had a verbal fight with my m-i-l, she asked my parents to tk me away. Finally she must b happy now. But then nw she is sorry. She apologized. My husband is andha bhakt of his mother. Survival is getting tough. He never listens my part. He blames me for anything done, always. A
2025-08-25 21:00:14

Dr Sapna Zarwal | Counselling Psychologist
Dear Pratibha,Thank you for opening up and sharing your struggle. I can sense how overwhelming it feelsmanaging distance, arguments, unmet needs, and family pressures all at once. Its natural to crave love and understanding in your marriage, and equally natural to feel exhausted when you dont receive it.These conflicts dont mean the relationship cannot improvethey show a need for new ways of communicating and rebuilding trust. Through counseling, we can work on:Expressing your emotional & physical needs in healthier waysReducing blame and arguments with better communication toolsSetting healthy boundaries with in-lawsHelping you cope with the stress and loneliness you feelYou dont have to go through this alone. With support, clarity and healing are possible.Warm regards,Dr. Sapna ZarwalCounseling Psychologist | Relationship Coach
2025-08-30 00:59:01

Janhvi Chaudhari Mairal | Clinical Psychologist
Hi Pratibha, the transition into marriage is perhaps the most difficult things a woman must go through. We leave our identities, our personalities, our likes and family to fit in with another of a very complex nature. I want you to know you are doing good. You are reaching out for help when you feel stuck. Thanks for that. I hope you congratulate yourself for this first step. In marriage, give and take with respect is key. And getting along with MIL becomes very important. Remember the time when you moved cities or made new friends, did you become best friends from the get go... maybe no. And that's the nature of relationships, it takes time to build trust and love towards family. It is totally natural. Due to the increasing work pressure and distance between the both of you, I can see that adequate communication might not be present. Without communication, no relation succeeds. My suggestion to you would be- listen to your boundaries, his boundaries, accept it and give it time. Ofc
2025-09-02 17:19:50

Iswariya Rajasekar | Counselling Psychologist
It's usually in really stage of marriage but we want to discuss and analyse the suitation so that I can guide you Shall we connect in a session
2025-09-07 10:06:19