RaXiXSXhXni | Author
I am in a relationship from 2017 to now. But, from last month he was arguing with me for his best friend and he is always busy with him. Whenever I called him he was bg and said I want to talk to her. Please baat krne do. Zid krta h usse baat krne k liye raat ke 12, 1 bje. Us din se mene phir use cll nii kiya wo ek do bar kiye but mene react nii kiya... Mujhe kya Krna chahiye?? Agr koi mujhe priority nhi de ya mujhe value na de to ky kre? Is he good for me?
2026-01-14 20:31:29

Irshad MD | Counselling Psychologist
Rani ji, aapka hurt feel karna valid hai. Relationship mein priority, respect aur boundaries important hoti hain.Is situation mein humein pehle clear karna hoga ki ye temporary phase hai ya pattern.Aap chahein toh counselling mein hum communication style, attachment needs aur boundaries assess karke clarity nikaal sakte hain.
2026-01-18 16:06:58

Ms ADITI GUPTA | Counselling Psychologist
Hey Rani, I can understand how painful and confusing this feels for you. When youve been in a relationship for so many years, suddenly feeling ignored or replaced can deeply hurt your sense of security.It makes sense that youre questioning your value and your place in his life. Anyone in your position would feel emotionally shaken.In healthy relationships, priority doesnt mean control, but it does mean emotional availability, respect for time, and reassurance.If one partner consistently chooses someone else over you and dismisses your feelings, it can slowly damage self-esteem.These patterns can deeply affect self-worth, especially after long-term relationships. Working through this in therapy can help you regain clarity, strengthen boundaries, and decide whats emotionally healthy for youwithout guilt or fear. Lets connect by booking a session and work on your area of requirements for sure.
2026-01-18 21:25:08

Vandana Sharma | Counselling Psychologist
Hi Rani, with your description there are signs of something going on in his life which he sceptical to share with you. Lets meet for a session for talk in detail. You will understand ways to deal with this delicate situation and get clarity about your relationship as well. Take care
2026-01-21 11:07:21