Anonymous | AuthorHi I had an abusive parents from childhood my mom was emotionally unavailable and i have been a victim of harassment in childhood! When I was 15 I dated one boy who was like 20 he broke my heart left me I begged him not to buy he kept cheating and treating me bad it's been 5 years and he is all settled and happy but when it comes to me why I am not ? I can't get over it everytime I try and forget he does something and stays in my thoughts i can't live like this anymore .
2026-01-28 12:54:18
Neha Kansal | Life CoachWhat youre feeling makes sense. When a mother is emotionally absent or abusive, a child grows up craving safety, reassurance, and validation. That unmet need doesnt disappear it quietly follows into adult relationships.Sometimes we dont just attach to the partner.We attach to the feeling of finally being chosen.So when your boyfriend left, it may not have reopened just a breakup wound it may have reopened the old wound of not feeling loved or prioritized.This doesnt mean you are weak.It means your nervous system is reacting to old pain.
2026-02-24 10:20:13
Dr Sapna Zarwal | Counselling PsychologistIm really sorry youve had to go through so much. Experiences from childhood and painful relationships can leave deep emotional wounds, and its understandable that youre still struggling with these thoughts. Healing is possible, and you dont have to go through it alone. If youd like, we can talk about it in a safe and supportive space.
2026-03-06 18:34:02
Dr Sapna Zarwal | Counselling PsychologistIm really sorry youve had to go through so much. Experiences from childhood and painful relationships can leave deep emotional wounds, and its understandable that youre still struggling with these thoughts. Healing is possible, and you dont have to go through it alone. If youd like, we can talk about it in a safe and supportive space.
2026-03-06 18:34:03